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Family 
Lines Newsletter, February 9, 
2003
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**Sobering Reminders**
By David 
Chadwell
 
The past several weeks I find this thought to be 
common as my week begins.  "I wonder what totally unexpected happening will 
become a part of this week's awareness?"  Every week it seems jobs are 
lost.  Every week we hear of someone we knew who died unexpectedly.  
Every week we hear of someone strong in faith experiencing personal 
struggles.  Every week we learn of a family in crisis.  Every week the 
news from North Korea is increasingly serious.  Every week we are reminded 
the Afghanistan war is real.  Every week indicators suggest we move closer 
to war with Iraq.  Then something occurs like the Colombia space shuttle 
exploding in its attempt to return to earth.
 
Doom and gloom?  No.  Sobering? 
Yes.  For years we were so comfortable in our lives, so comfortable in our 
faith, so comfortable in our plans, even so comfortable in our anticipated 
futures that we tended to be blind to reality.  We defined security in 
terms of possessions and lifestyles.  We defined God's promises and 
blessings in terms of our material desires.  We defined relationship with 
God in terms of affirming the correct practices as we followed the correct 
system.
 
Disappearing jobs, disappearing lives, disappearing 
strengths, disappearing relationships, disappearing peace, and the unexpected 
confront past tendencies.  If we are not careful, when such confrontations 
assault our past tendencies they also assault our faith.  If we are not 
careful, such assaults on our faith quickly become assaults on our relationship 
with God.
 
Consider these reminders repeatedly stressed 
throughout the Bible.
 
1. God is the only certain reality.  Nations 
rise and fall.  Cultures rise and fall.  Societies rise and 
fall.  Leaders rise and fall.  The strong rise and fall.  The 
wealthy rise and fall.  Those who live for pleasure rise and fall. The God 
Who created endures.  He was before this world began.  He will remain 
when this world ends.  Wise is the man or woman who is in relationship with 
God.
 
2. Relationship with God promises the strength to 
endure struggles, not freedom from struggles.  Abraham lived in dangerous 
situations.  David fled to the wilderness.  Jesus was a target.  
Paul faced unimaginable hardships.  Yet, each found the strength to endure 
from a relationship with God.
 
3. The greater our dependence on God, the greater 
is our strength from God.  Paul thought his effectiveness in his God-given 
mission significantly would improve if opposition ended.  If God removed 
his opposition, he could get so much more done for Christ!  The Lord's 
response:  "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in 
weakness" (2 Corinthians 12:9).  The Lord's way of looking at Paul's 
situation totally changed the way Paul saw his situation.  "Most gladly, 
therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may 
dwell in me" (above verse).
 
4. Never forget the goal is to follow Christ as you 
place life in God.  Never forget that you are in this world, but not of 
this world.
 
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**VBS 2003**
In preparation for our upcoming VBS 
"Christ's Chosen," we are in need of fabric for costumes.  We can use any 
solid, stripe, or white sheets or comparable fabric (no florals please). There 
will be a container in the foyer. We also need several seamstresses to make 
simple costumes.  If you can help with this, please contact Carolyn Harrell 
(646-3325) or Dena Jenkins (478-6486). If you have any costumes, please return 
them as soon as possible. We need to inventory them so that we know what our 
needs are for this year. 
 
**LTC Announcement**
All Pre-convention Packets 
for LTC must be postmarked BEFORE February 18. Please mail them before the 
deadline.
 
**LTC Practices**
Drama, 4:00 p.m.
Puppets, 
5:00 p.m.
Chorus, 6:15 p.m.
 
**Wednesday Night Bible Class**
We have 
completed our study of the book of Jonah. Next week, Feb. 12th, we'll make 
application. The following Wednesday, Feb. 19th we'll begin a study of Malachi. 
This class is taught by David Chadwell and meets in the Auditorium on Wednesday 
nights after the devotional. Everyone is invited.
 
**Ladies' Night**  With Cassandra 
Martin
Tuesday Evening, March 4th
West-Ark Church of 
Christ
Refreshments & Visiting: 6:30 p.m.
Cassandra will begin 
speaking at 7:00 p.m.
on the topic "Living Water for Dusty 
Souls"
 
This is an informal evening.
No sign-up sheets; 
no cost involved. 
Please bring your Bibles, your daughters,
your friends, 
and co-workers.
 
Cassandra Martin has written a series of Bible 
study workbooks 
for women entitled Women Opening the Word, which 
includes
Paul: By the Grace of God, Books 1 & 2;
Echoing His 
Heartbeat: The Life of David and God,  and God, Pass By Me. 
Her newest 
book, The Shadow of the Cross, is scheduled for release this year. 
 
**Winter Retreat** February 7-9
Siloam Springs, 
AR
Theme: "Going For Broke"
More information on page 4.
Please remember 
in prayer all those who are traveling to Winter Retreat.
 
**David's Sermons**
Sunday Morning: Eyes That 
See, Ears That Hear
Sunday Evening: "Skip Over" Scriptures, Romans 16 (Part 
II)
 
**GOT KIDS??**
Let Us Keep You Out of the Dog 
House this Valentine's Day!
Mexico Mission Team Babysitting
Friday, 
February 14, 6:00 - 10:00 p.m. in the FLC and Nursery.
Food and fun 
provided!
Donations Appreciated!
Sign up at the Mexico Mission table in 
the Foyer.
Walk-ins welcome!
 
**Tired of Being In The Red?**
Coming March 9-10 
"No Debt, No Sweat"
A Life-Changing Seminar Teaching God's Way of Handling 
Money.
 
* How to get out of debt
* A, B, C's of 
Christian Money Management
* How to do a successful spending plan
* A 
Do-it-yourself Credit Repair Kit
* How Mutual Funds Work
* Retire with 
dignity
 
Make plans now to attend.
 
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**In Our 
Thoughts and Prayers**
 
* Deborah Wilson's father, Bert Brown, had a heart 
cath February 3rd. He is scheduled for additional heart treatments.
* Marion 
Hastings (father of Sue) is in Sparks Hospital.  
* Mary Gates (mother 
of David Gates) had surgery February 6th at St. Edward Hospital.
* Allen 
Wells (father of Joyce Chadwell) will enter the hospital next week for surgery. 
Joyce's parents live in Crossville, TN.
* Gail Stevens is still in St. Edward 
Hospital, room 3521.  
* G. C. Stone requests prayers for his friend, 
Waldo Thomas who was diagnosed with leukemia.
* Continue to pray for all 
Virgil Kirchner, Anita Maxwell, Erma Beshears, Sandy Berger, Kathy Bauer, Vicki 
Varvel, and Sandy Thurman.
 
**Mission Work & Travel**
Jerry Canfield 
(Nigeria)
Jim Wilson (Ethiopia)
John Paul & Ruby Lee Hundley 
(France)
Thomas & Kindy Kweekul (Thailand)
 
**Baptism**
Bill Wilson (son of James and 
Deborah) was baptized Sunday morning.  He shared this statement with the 
congregation.
 
"I have, for a long time, been living a life far 
away from all that is right. I've ignored God and His people, continually sought 
after personal pleasure, yet, only found that pain and complete emptiness is 
ultimately, all the world offers. I realize I've caused pain and hurt for more 
than just myself during my trip to the bottom of the "pleasure slide" and am 
sincerely asking for forgiveness of my sinful behavior.  I also would 
appreciate your prayers in my quest for change, for peace, and for the fullness 
of life that is only possible in Christ. I give my life to Him.
Bill 
Wilson
8524 S. 30th Terrace
Fort Smith, AR 72908
 
**Notes of Thanks**
Thank you for all the 
visits, cards, calls, and other expressions of love and concern shown to our 
family during the illness and death of my brother, Charles.
Bill & 
Margaret Moss
 
Thank you!  
To everyone who donated and 
allowed us to work - the Mexico Missions Servant's Day was a fantastic 
success!  You touched us with your generosity!  We thank you all so 
much! Thanks also to Ron & Debbie Belote, Rob Davidson, James and Patti 
Anderson, Philip & Landon Abuzeide and Blake Frost who worked some long 
hours assembling and selling computers for the Mexico Mission fund!  The 
sale was also very successful!  We have several projects we will be 
scheduling for warmer weather or just for another time.  If you have a 
project you would like scheduled, just let us know!  
Tom & Roxie 
Benincosa
for the Mexico Mission Team
 
**60+ Valentine Potluck**
Don't miss out on this 
special night of fun!
February 15th, 6:00 p.m. in the Family Life 
Center.
 
**Wedding Invitation**
The parents of Ashley 
LeAnne Chitwood
and Timothy Scott Coleman
request the honour of your 
presence 
at the marriage of their children on
Friday, February 14th at 
seven o'clock in the evening
Pleasant Valley Church of Christ
6020 Kibler 
Road, Van Buren, Arkansas
 
**Happy Birthday**
February 10
Howard 
Hughes
Marceil Stevens
 
February 11
Jessica Bryant
Lance 
Haines
Jeremy Harper
Elaine Kamp
 
February 12
Joyce Dunavin
 
February 13
Mike Burkett
Ava 
Jones
 
February 14
Barbara Abernathy
 
February 15
Mary Margaret Hudson
Ron 
Smith
 
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** "Youth Ministry...What's That?" **
By Brad 
Pistole
Since the majority of our adult members grew up without youth 
ministers and without family ministry, I often wonder how many of you are 
thinking to yourself, "I wonder what Brad and the teens do all weekend on all of 
these retreats and youth rallies they attend."
 
Maybe you think it's "one big camping trip." Maybe 
you think we "play all weekend." Maybe you simply "do not know." 
 
Well, this weekend is one of those weekends. 
February 7th-9th will be the 13th annual Winter Retreat and we will be gone with 
about 30 of our teens and adults. Our theme for the weekend is "Going For Broke" 
and is taken from the following scriptures: Acts 15:26, Romans 16:3-4, and 
Philippians 2:25-30. 
 
I thought I would give you a brief description of 
what typically happens on a weekend like this, since many of you may be curious 
about what a retreat involves.
 
On Friday night, we'll have 7-8 different youth 
groups arrive and we'll spend about an hour getting to know one another. Then, 
all of our adults (usually about 40) will gather privately to meet one another 
and begin the weekend with a short prayer session for all of the teens that are 
present. Our focus is established at this point: to allow God to use us 
throughout the entire weekend in ways that will lead our young people closer to 
Christ.
 
Then, we spend the rest of Friday night praising 
God through song. We wrap things up Friday night with Session One - 
"Risk-Takers." There will be 4 more sessions on Saturday: "Gravity Games," 
"True-Risk Takers," "Going to the Xtreme," and "Going for Broke."
 
The point of all of these lessons will be to show 
our teens how willing they are to "risk" everything in today's world. Whether 
it's through sports, relationships, drugs, sex, etc., we live in an extreme 
world. The disciples that followed Christ were willing to risk their lives, too, 
but in a much different way. They took risks for the sake of the gospel. How do 
we return to this spirit today?
 
Many people will be challenged and blessed as a 
result of our "playing" this weekend. Hopefully, one day, you might be curious 
enough about what we do to go with us and experience it for yourself. We'd love 
to have more adults leading and teaching our teens about "true life" in Christ. 
Come join us!
 
**Nursery Workers**
Infants: Trish Carson, Jane 
Dunavin, Morgan Dunavin
Toddlers: Jon Huff, Liz Huff 
Evening: Marquetta 
Walker, Molly Walker
 
**Schedule of Services**
Sunday Worship 
(10:30)................678 
Sunday Classes (9:30) ................. 
472
Sunday Evening (6:00)...................323
The Way (4:00) 
................................45
Spanish Morning 
Worship................19
Spanish Evening Worship (6:30)......17
Wednesday 
Worship (7:00).............301 
Sunday Contribution 
................$20,335
 
 
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