Christians and Hardships
teacher's guide Lesson 13

Lesson Thirteen

Things Hardships Never Prove

Texts: Matthew 27:1-26; Romans 8:31-39

Objective of this lesson: to verify God's love and care for Christians even when they endure hardship and suffering.

There are four things Christian hardships never prove. Regardless of the suffering the Christians experiences, the struggles causing the suffering are never evidence of four things. (1) Hardships never prove God does not listen to the Christian's prayers. (2) Hardships never prove God does not care about the Christian. (3) Hardships never prove God does not love the Christian. (4) Hardships never prove that God is powerless. If a Christian's understanding of the character and nature of God is weak, he or she may conclude one or more of those things are true.

Emphasize the four things that experiencing the hardship of suffering does not prove concerning God's love and care for us. Make certain your students realize that the struggle between good and its forces and evil and its forces always will be a reality in physical existence. That struggle will continue until Jesus Christ conquers all of God's enemies [which will culminate in the final judgment] (see 1 Corinthians 15:24-28).

As an example to be considered in all four of these false conclusions, consider Jesus. In Gethsemane on the last evening of his earthly existence, Jesus prayed to his Father with such earnestness that he sweated profusely. [Have you ever prayed that earnestly?] In intense earnestness, he made the same request of God three times. His request: "My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as You will" (Matthew 26:39). We could paraphrase Jesus' prayer with these words: "If we can achieve Your purposes without my crucifixion, please, achieve Your purposes by another means. However, You know best; You are in charge. I yield to Your wishes."

Stress the fact that hardship does not prove God does not love or does not care by using Jesus' Gethsemane experience. Jesus did not want the pain and responsibility of crucifixion. He prayed to be delivered from that pain and responsibility. However, much, much more was involved than God's feeling for His son. The fact that Jesus was crucified was not an evidence that God had no feeling for His son, any more than parents' willingness for a son or daughter to sacrifice his or her life for the good of the country proves those parents did not love their son or daughter.

Perhaps our reaction is this: "It surely did Jesus a lot of good to pray! That is one prayer God neither heard nor answered!" Wrong! The man who knelt in prayer was a man in such deep anxiety that he sweated. The same man who was tried and crucified was calm, quiet, and under the control of silent resolve. He could pray for his tormentors as he painfully died, "Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34).

The benefit of Jesus' prayers is seen in the transformation of Jesus' emotions and demeanor. The strength for that transformation came from God.

Have you considered Hebrews 5:7? "In the days of His flesh, He offered up both prayers and supplications with loud crying and tears to the One able to save Him from death, and He was heard because of His piety." Note the words "he was heard." Did Jesus die? Yes! Was Jesus crucified? Yes! Is that what he wanted? No! Did the fact that he was crucified mean that God did not hear his prayer? No! God loved his son dearly and was deeply pleased with him (Matthew 3:17; 17:5). However, He also loved a rebellious world that did not please Him (John 3;16, 17). God's relationship with a loved son was secure. God's relationship with a rebellious world was not secure. In incredible love, God sacrificed a son with whom He had a secure relationship to provide hope for a rebellious world beyond His touch. Jesus' death was not evidence that God did not love, but evidence of a love beyond human comprehension. God did not remove the cup from Jesus. Rather, He gave Jesus strength to drink the cup.

Stress the fact that Jesus was heard. Though he did not receive the answer he wished, he was answered. The answer was not a "no." The answer was strength to endure the ordeal.

Jesus' death proves how much God cares for us. No matter what hardship we endure, our hardship (1) is never greater than a sinless Jesus' crucifixion, and (2) our hardship never uproots Jesus' cross. Perhaps you say, "Good for us, but bad for Jesus." Wrong! Through death and resurrection, God made Jesus Savior of humanity. Because of his death and resurrection, we have forgiveness, cleansing, hope, mercy, and grace. Because of his death and resurrection, he (1) is honored with a name above all names (Philippians 2:9-11); (2) is enthroned at God's right hand by the consent and order of God Himself (Matthew 28:18; Acts 5:31; 1 Corinthians 15:25); and (3) is the means through which God keeps all His promises (Acts 3:18-21). When we see the resurrected Jesus in judgment, we will without hesitation bow before the King of kings in complete awareness of his significance.

God's love for us is enormous--we are not on "our own." Jesus' cross forever proves God's enormous love for us. We do need to realize that following God is an act of rebellion against Satan. Satan's hatred of God is beyond human exaggeration! Though Satan can and will hurt us, Satan cannot destroy us ( 1 John 4:4). Stress the two things hardship can never do. Stress the three ways in which Jesus was blessed because he endured rejection and crucifixion.

It is because of what God accomplished in Jesus' death and resurrection that nothing can separate the person in Christ [by personal choice] from God's love. A person may abandon his/her love for God, but God will never abandon His love for His children! Listen to Romans 8:32-34: "He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things? Who will bring a charge against God's elect? God is the one who justifies; who is the one who condemns? Christ Jesus is He who died, yes, rather who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who also intercedes for us." Because of what God accomplished in Jesus' death and resurrection, Satan himself cannot separate those in Christ from God! (Romans 8:35-39). God does not have to listen to any charges brought against those in Christ!

It is impossible to want to continue with God and be stolen from God. If we in Christ wish to belong to God, nothing can kidnap us from God. If God invested the life of His son in our salvation, He will most certainly protect His investment! Because God justified all in Jesus Christ through Jesus' crucifixion, He does not have to listen to accusations or charges against those He justified.

God's sustaining power is not diminished by an evil world! In His power, God can assist us in our struggles in at least three ways. (1) He can remove our problem [always our desire and our choice, but not always what is best for us or God's objectives]. (2) He can enable us to cope with the problem. [When we cope, we continue life as though the problem were not a reality.] (3) He can enable us to endure the problem. [The problem alters a person's life on a continuing, daily basis, but it does not defeat us.]

Stress God's help in these three ways is equally powerful, equally effective. In any of the three ways, God is dynamically involved in the lives of His children. Whatever happens to us, we endure no more than His own son endured.

At Gethsemane and Golgotha, God made the perfect Savior. However, as God made that perfect Savior, only God and Jesus knew it. To everyone else, including Satan, it appeared that the forces of evil won. Yet, God was dynamically active. He took the worst that Satan could do, and from the worst manifestations of evil made the perfect Savior. If God could do that with hate and shameful crucifixion, what can He make from our suffering?

Make this point as unforgettable as possible: at Golgotha God took the worst Satan could do and used it to produce a perfect Savior. God could do that because of Jesus' surrender and dependence on God. God has shown us what He with His power can do if we will surrender to Him and depend on Him.

Thought and Discussion Questions

  1. State the four things that human sufferings never prove.

    (a) God does not hear our prayers.

    (b) God does not care about us.

    (c) God does not love us.

    (d) God is powerless to help us.

  2. Who is the foundation example that disproves all four false assumptions?

    Jesus Christ

  3. Did Jesus' Gethsemane prayers accomplish anything for Jesus? Explain your answer.

    Yes! They provided him the strength to endure the ordeal!

  4. Use Jesus' death and resurrection to demonstrate God's love for His servant Son.

    Stress the emphasis in Hebrews 5:7-9 (Jesus Christ is the source of God's salvation) and 1 Corinthians 15:24-28 (Jesus reigns for God and will continue His reign until all God's enemies are defeated).

  5. Instead of removing the cup, what did God do for Jesus? Why?

    Instead of removing the cup, God gave Jesus the strength to drink the cup. God's purposes were larger [bigger] than His son's desires.

  6. Cite two reasons for understanding that human hardship does not prove God does not care.

    (a) No hardship is bigger than Jesus' death.

    (b) No hardship uproots Jesus' cross.

  7. Cite three reasons for understanding Jesus' death did not prove God did not care for Jesus.

    (a) He was given a name superior to all names.

    (b) He was enthroned at God's right hand.

    (c) He was the means of God keeping all His promises.

  8. Explain how Jesus' death demonstrates God's commitment to us.

    If God invested the life of the son He loves in our salvation, He is not going to ignore or neglect His investment.

  9. List three ways that God can help us when we endure hardships and struggles.

    (a) He can remove the hardship or struggle.

    (b) He can enable us to cope with the hardship or struggle.

    (c) He can enable us to endure the hardship or struggle.

  10. What did God do in Gethsemane and at Golgotha in spite of Satan's most evil acts?

    God produced the perfect Savior.


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