Queen __________ --
7 eunuchs (v. 10) --
princely advisers (v. 14) --
spokesman, Memucan (vv. 16, 21) --
 Think of a time when you were
expected to do something you were uncomfortable performing.  How did you handle the situation?  What was the outcome?
  Think of a time when you were
expected to do something you were uncomfortable performing.  How did you handle the situation?  What was the outcome?
 (Thought question) Many times a punishment of a person or group of people is not JUST for them, but is also to teach a lesson to others. From verses 17 & 18, who did the advisors think needed to learn a lesson?
  (Thought question) Many times a punishment of a person or group of people is not JUST for them, but is also to teach a lesson to others. From verses 17 & 18, who did the advisors think needed to learn a lesson?
Queen Vashti?
The wise men?
 (Thought question)  How do you view the development of respect? (i.e., legislated, commanded, earned ...)
  (Thought question)  How do you view the development of respect? (i.e., legislated, commanded, earned ...)
 What are some ways you may have been trying to gain respect that are not godly or helpful?
  What are some ways you may have been trying to gain respect that are not godly or helpful?
Verse to ponder: Esther 1:18Do you think the leaders were more concerned about Vashti, the king, the kingdom, or themselves?
How many times are you called upon to make a decision and you base it on what is good for yourself?
Challenge: Queen Vashti had very little "control" in her life, but she used what control she did have in making her decision not to indulge the men.
Consider your own life and the areas where there is control and the areas where you have little or NO control. The stick figure at the bottom of the page represents you. The line is "grounded" where you have control. Either draw or list things on the line with you that are under control. Then above the line and you, either draw or list things that are "out of control." Circle those things out of control that you can make changes to make improvements. Underline those things upon which you need to have a spiritual attitude adjustment to just leave in God's hands. Pray to Him to forgive you of those things you need to put under His control and to strengthen you to change those things with which you need His help to change.
 
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